Randa Jarrar is the author of the memoir Love Is An Ex-Country, the novel A Map of Home, and the collection of stories Him, Me, Muhammad Ali. She is also a performer who has appeared in independent films and in the TV show RAMY. Her essays have appeared in The New York Times Magazine, Salon, Bitch, Buzzfeed, and elsewhere. She is a recipient of a Creative Capital Award and an American Book Award, as well as awards and fellowships from the Civitella Ranieri Foundation, the Lannan Foundation, Hedgebrook, PEN, and others. She lives in Los Angeles.
Here is a fun timeline for your pleasure:
1978: I am born to an Egyptian Mama and a Palestinian Baba in Chicago. We move to Kuwait two months later.
1982: I begin school early and my journey of nerddom and doing-things-too-soon begins.
1990: Iraq invades Kuwait and I move to Alexandria, Egypt.
1991: My dad gets a job in NYC and I move to White Plains, NY
1992: I move to Old Greenwich, CT, which is so white it scars me for life.
1994: I enroll at Sarah Lawrence College at the age of 16 – see under 1982. I come out as queer.
1996: I give birth to my son at age 18 because- see under 1982.
1998: My son and I move to Austin, TX.
2000: I receive an MA in Middle Eastern Studies.
2000: I begin a novel.
2001: We move to a trailer in Kyle, TX (pop. 5,000 at the time) & I begin novel again. 9/11 happens. I decide no one will read a novel about an Arab-American Muslim girl. I decide yes they fucking will. I keep writing.
2003: I finish draft of novel.
2004: I begin revising novel. I continue to raise my kiddo solo.
2006: I sell novel.
2006: I move to Ann Arbor to attend University of Michigan’s MFA program. My son begins playing bass.
2007: Novel wins Hopwood Award
2008: I receive my MFA in fiction. Novel is released to huge acclaim and gets picked up in 6 countries.
2009: I begin a second book. My son begins playing guitar. He is dizzyingly good.
2010: I move to CA to become a professor.
2011: I begin to publish more essays and creative nonfiction. I go to Istanbul for 5 weeks and write on a residency.
2012: I begin a collection of stories. I go to Italy and stay in a castle on a fellowship. My son hates that I do this.
2013: I try to visit Palestine and am denied entry.
2015: I sell my collection of stories to a publisher. I go to Marfa TX and stay at the Lannan foundation and begin a memoir. My son no longer hates me. He’s a musician and living in San Francisco and working as a gondolier on Lake Merritt.
2016: My collection is published to critical acclaim and I win some awards. My son moves home and now I’m the one who hates him. I drive cross country to New York and back for memoir research and also because I can’t deal with my kid’s goat smell.
2017: I work hard on my memoir.
2018: I finish and sell my memoir. I also become the target of racist white nationalists who send me 800 death threats and call me a camel cunt, which I wish I could call my memoir. I move to Los Angeles. I start doing standup.
2019: I get to do standup with Sammy Obeid, one of my heroes, and keep working on my scripts.
2020 I appear in three projects: RAMY on Hulu, GOT GAME, a short film by Fatimah Asghar, and FINJAN, a short film by Rolla Selbak.
2021: Love Is an Ex-Country, my memoir, is released. I begin writing and developing a feature film.
Timeline will continue as drama accrues…
Order Love Is An Ex-Country here.
Order Him, Me, Muhammad Ali, here
Read Randa’s short stories and essays here.